Sunday, December 30, 2007

Why do we have HORRID relatives??!

Damn pissed this weekend. Trying to make myself less angry cos being angry affects me and my health and more wrinkles on my face and not other ppl! Yet I just can't help being angry!

One of my so-called cousins is having a birthday party today. Don't bloody care how old she is, think about 14, and don't bother how old she is anyway! This "cousin" also low EQ, been spoilt by parents, aunts, etc. She's poor but she behave like a rich princess and always think she so pretty, dolling herself up. Siao. Actually she's not poor, got computer, tv, education, food to eat, own mobile phone, internet, etc etc, where got poor??? Only my aunts think she's poor and pitiful cos her real mother abandoned her.

My mum had a chalet for her office event which was cancelled, so she happily offered to these relatives of this cousin. Anyway I have never considered her my cousin (long story). Don't like her philandering, womanizing father and her stingy, thick-skinned stepmother. Though the stepmother (wife to the uncle) is quite pitiful that her husband betrayed her but her behaviour is also irksome!

Well, offer the chalet to them never mind. My mum, in her kind-heartedness and eagerness to cook delicious food for people to enjoy, offered to roast turkey. So I thought that was all but felt it wasn't to be as that aunt don't know how to cook loh! Don't think I am dumb, a BBQ does not entail that little food... Ended up my mum was organizing everything and intended to cook other dishes such as beehoon and curry. My mum even borrowed car from another aunt to transport stuff like paper utensils, portable stove, to go buy satay from City Satay etc. Knowing my mum, she will go all out to do what she likes and not take her body into consideration by carrying heavy things or persisting even though she's tired. The next few days, she will complain of tiredness, body aching here and there.

Knowing that the aunt-in-law wont help and can't cook, I called up an elder aunt living with her (aka my mum's sister). She said she already asked the aunt-in-law to help but she is working so cannot help out. I felt it strange cos that "AIL" will not lift a hand to help loh! She is that low EQ and that lazy and that... dunno what words to describe. I called my mum's sister again this morning when I discovered my mum left the house so early in the morning to GO AND COOK!!! RIDICULOUS!!! This elder aunt somemore can say my mum is a willing party. Willing party yes but knowing them, they will NOT LIFT A FINGER TO HELP LOH!!! Willing party still must help right? If not sit there like dumbo?? So I made a big fuss out of it to my elder aunt (who actually dotes on this so-called cousin alot too) and ended up she went to help cook as well. (Or at least that's what my mum said).

I dont really believe and don't give a hoot about it just as long as I make my displeasure known. Call me disrespectful I don't care! What respect for elders who cannot behave themselves and set a good example?! By the way, I must go chase them to pay back my mum the money used to buy the turkey, satay and who knows whatever ingredients my mum helped to buy. Cos they will not pay back or even offer to do so.

These people are really horrible! I hate these kind of free-loaders, that's why I always end up being the bad person and telling them off!! But I dun care. Why do I have such horrid relatives???????????????????????

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